Free HIV support and resources
For people looking for information, emotional support, peer communities, counselling or appropriate HIV organisations.
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Whether you've recently been diagnosed, have been living with HIV for years, or simply need someone to talk to, there are different ways to find support.
For people looking for information, emotional support, peer communities, counselling or appropriate HIV organisations.
For people who want to explore working with me directly on challenges involving HIV, including diagnosis, stigma, self-acceptance, disclosure, relationships, confidence and moving forward.
This is personal coaching and support — not medical advice, treatment or emergency mental-health care.
My story
“HIV woke me up. At the time, I thought it was the worst thing that had ever happened to me. I now realise it was the best.”
When I was diagnosed with late-stage HIV in 2020, I thought my life was over. I was so wrong. It was the start of my recovery from 20 years of struggles with mental health and addiction — a journey of finding myself and becoming more resilient than I ever thought I could be.
For years, I encountered stigma and discrimination, even from people close to me. But with support — and tools I learned in recovery — I found the strength to share my story. Today, I use my experiences to help others through my content, my work for Terrence Higgins Trust, and my speaking engagements.
While my coaching focuses on helping people overcome addiction, I started these emails to support others living with HIV. Later in 2026, I plan to launch an interactive online HIV community. This is just the first step — I'd love for you to be part of it 💙